23 year old Dominant female, exploring and sharing all things BDSM, heavy bondage, femdom, kink and sex.
You may adress me properly as Ma'am, Mistress, or - my favorite - Madame.
I appreciate and adore submissions, questions, comments and messages very much. Do not hesitate to send me one of those!
Boys & girls welcome.
I view it simply as an activity/concept - sexual or not - that any number of consenting adults can indulge in; in whatever form they wish. Be that total power exchange, professional hired services, different dominance dynamics, financial domination, casual play, cuckolding, etc… The list of different approaches goes on and on.
I believe that, truly, no human being is superior to another or worth more. However, that does not mean we can’t all enjoy assuming roles and a consensual dynamic where that is not the case. That consensual shift and exchange of power is what FemDom is to me.
You don’t have to be a girl to become a schoolgirl. Boys can make pretty schoolgirls, too. That said, I’m not really into feminization or crossdressing.
Yes, I have. I’ve rarely ever done it, and never with someone who expresses interest in it from the beginning. If it ever happens, I will be the one who suggests it.
Very interesting question. I think there are a few things that influence this…
The main one being our culture, I think. The idea that men and women aren’t all that different and should be equal in everything is still a fairly new one, given the big picture. There’s still a strong perspective of male dominance throughout society - art, the workplace, porn, everyday language, etc. Generally, you’re not seen as a “man” if you’re not some kind of alpha male, and you’re not a “woman” if some feminine standards don’t fit you. This shapes expectations and world views when growing up and even as adults.
Also consider that there might be a LOT of dominant females around, but they just don’t choose to show it as openly and freely as males do, for a few reasons. One, they don’t NEED to do that as much in order to find partners. Two, being dominant as a man is expected, while being dominant as a female can be regarded as strange, bitchy, aggressive, etc.
I do believe that there are many more dominant girls out there than one thinks, and that there will be more with growing equality and the death of gender as an issue of anything.
Then, there’s the issue of dominance itself. While I do think submission is a gift, I think dominance is as well. It’s a big responsibility, and it takes effort, and - in my opinion - intelligence. I believe the number of QUALITY male Doms around is about the same as quality female Doms.
And finally; there is nothing wrong with being submissive, or many members of a certain gender leaning towards a certain orientation, of course!
I hope that was helpful!
(This is all my own view & opinion, not based on any research or facts.)
I do have to agree, dear.
Nice to hear our tastes match. Now get off your ass and don’t remain anonymous. That’s an order~
Madame has a free day, and I’m feeling chatty. Today, I will answer any questions I get (as long as they do not reveal private information, ie. location, full name, etc). Ask away.
I’m looking forward to your inquires~
For restraints; leather gear is my favorite.
For wearing; I prefer latex. I only wish I could afford proper dresses!